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Master Your Emotions
Life presents you with varied opportunities in your daily existence. Any day or night, you encounter
events and you deal with them. This continuous change improves your zeal for life. Some of these
happenings excite you and make you happy. Some others try to unravel you or scare you even while
you deal with them. Some others do not arouse any special emotion.
An important need in life is to be able to master your emotions to deal with any events of life. It is
easy to simply state this fact but mastering your emotions is no joke. You need immense willpower,
strength, and belief in your capabilities. Emotions are your reaction to a situation. Such emotion in
your brain and mind translates into the type of physical behavior you respond with.
Without any reaction, emotion is meaningless. The return trip of Apollo 13 was miraculous. When the
crew encountered problems, they contacted Houston for help. That was no great deal. Effective
implementation of corrective measures to avert a serious and major mishap may only be possible if
you have nerves of steel. The crew of Apollo 13 kept their focus on having a safe landing and that it
is exactly what they did. This classic example of keeping your emotions under total control displays
appreciable grit and determination. They fought against all odds and emerged successful.
In daily life, you encounter numerous situations and have to deal with them.
You cannot allow your emotion to take the upper hand and dictate terms to you – that could spell
doom for you.
Example situations may include:
- Accidents to loved ones
- Grueling sessions in your examinations
- Interviews for jobs where you need to prove your mettle
- Unexpected happenings in your professional life, … which require important decisions within
seconds, etc.
You may feel nervous initially but must shed your nervousness. You need to keep your emotions
under tight control and do what the situation demands.
There is no time or place for emotions. Effective action should rule over everything else.
Every person has an inborn capacity to master their emotions. This is not something you learn at
school but it might be encouraged there or not.
When the events occur which try to unravel your inner capacities, you realize your capacity and
master your emotions to come out successful. This creates pleasant situations for you and you find it
easier to stay at peace at all times.
Fear of Failure
Failure is a negative word that evokes feelings of incompetence, inability and incapacity to perform to
the desired level. It fuels pessimism which can make you afraid to attempt anything because of the
possibility of failure. You vividly imagine failing in your attempts at doing anything and feel like you
are at the end of your world. The fear of failure constantly lurking in your mind affects your actions.
You think many times before starting on anything and doubt your own capabilities. You lack self-
confidence which can cause more setbacks.
This scenario changes for the better immediately when you decide not to attach importance to your
failures. You fail because you do not try to your best potential. So you fumble more often and fall.
You hold back on your quests and encourage failure.
The important point is to let go of your fear of failure. Instead, treat failures as steps towards success.
If you fail one attempt, try again with greater, renewed vigor. You will succeed, if not the second
time, then the third time. Persist and you are sure to emerge a winner with greater self-confidence.
In reality failure, is only when you succumb to fear of failure and give up.
Remove fear from your mind and fill it with faith:
√ faith in your abilities
√ faith in your capabilities, and
√ faith in yourself.
This faith in yourself can take you to high levels of success. There is no failure if you keep trying until
you succeed. Nobody recalls the number of times you failed from the day you succeed.
Success is the truth while failure is only a mirage.
This is evident with American President, Abraham Lincoln. He sure did not become President of
America first time he tried. However, he did not give up.
He tried again and became President.
In the same sense, many more politicians tried for presidency but could not be successful. They just
chose to quit the presidential race and carried on with their lives. Hence, they are ‘failures’ in this
quest - they backed down due to fear of further failure.
There are not many roses on the path to success and you probably will tread on plenty of thorns
before you reach your goal or meet success in your endeavors.
Pay no mind to fear of obstacles or hurdles in your path. They are there to teach you how to tackle
them and then move ahead.
Before starting, be mentally prepared for impediments and problems. This mental preparation goes a
long way in evading fear of failures. Statisticians say that over ninety percent of fears do not happen
at all.
How to Overcome Fear of Failure
Fear of failure and faith in your abilities are opposites and exist together in your mind. It is up to you
to eradicate the fear and reinforce the faith. This unwanted fear directly relates to failure and gains
over your faith. You should decide to push out fear and instill faith in its place.
A classic example is when a baby is learning to walk. It tries innumerable times and falls or gets hurt.
Nevertheless, it does not stop in its attempts.
Instead, it keeps trying until it finally walks! This is an obvious display of the baby’s faith in its
capacity to walk one day.
This clearly indicates that you are born with faith to succeed and overcome obstacles in your path to
success. Proper action replaces fear of failure with faith in your abilities and efforts. Such action
needs you to start it. Allow your faith to grow and reinforce itself every time you fail. Faith is
necessary to live while fear drags you to darker realms.
Change your mindset to give more prominence to faith. Realize that this change takes time.
Nevertheless, keep trying and do not stop until you succeed.
Such renewed vigor energizes your subconscious mind. Slowly you fill your heart, mind and soul with
faith and throw off your fear of failure.
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The above is an extract from the book "Motivate Your Way to Success".
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The Table of Contents
1. Understanding Self-Motivation
2. Power of Self-Motivation - Why You Need Self-Motivation
3. Attitude and Behavior of a Winner
4. What It Takes to Become a Winner
5. Cultivate an Attitude of Positive Expectancy
6. Develop an Abundance Attitude
7. What If You Lack Self-Motivation?
8. Establish a Purpose for Your Life
9. Master Your Emotions
10. Fear of Failure
11. Without Struggle, There is no life
12. The Power of Positive Thinking
13. Develop Persistence and Never Quit
14. Overcome Your Self-Imposed Limitations
15. Overcoming Procrastination
16. Motivation by Gratitude
17. Nobody is Perfect
18. Become a Complete New Person
19. How to Enhance Your Self-Image
20. Ten Ways to Regain Your Self-Esteem
21. Techniques to Build Self-Motivation
22. How to Set Your Goal
23. Put the Power of Goal Setting into Action
24. How to Manage Your Time and Set Priorities
25. You Can Transform Your Dreams into Reality
26. Unleash and Use Your Full Potential
27. Synergise Your Positive Life Forces
28. How to Manage Distractions
29. Develop the Desire of a Winner
30. Make Desire and Self-Motivation Your Way of Life
31. Build a Tough Mental Attitude
32. How to Turn Adversity into Opportunity
33. How to be Motivated Without a Motivator
34. Enhance the Magnetic Power of Your Personal Charisma
35. Be Self-Disciplined
36. Ten Useful Self-Motivating Tips
37. Achieve a Balance in Life
38. Pride from Your Accomplishments
39. Stay Motivated to Keep Getting Results
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